"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dominance game and this woman...strange situation

BackInTheGame78

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I met a 26 year old very hot woman on OLD who I believe is probably f'd up in the head, but honestly what hot chicks aren't these days...

Anyway she was attracted to me because she said I look "dominant" but wasn't sure I'd be able to give her what she needed...

She said she wants a guy who controls her whole life..what she eats, what she wears, when she goes places, etc...and obviously dominance in the bedroom as well...

So I've been doing pretty well by directing her to do things...giving me her number, any challenges are met with a stern scolding and when she does what she is supposed I tell her she is a good girl and good girls do as they are told...

Now I'm all for dominance but this is a little further then I've ever gone...I'm interested in getting this chick out and banging her, but I'd like to get opinions from others who have dealt with similar women. What are they looking for? Security, safety, a father/authority figure?

Again I don't think I could go past banging her a few times but in the interest of hitting it, what's the best play?
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dominate her what are you waiting for ?
Treat her well and respectful as a woman. But have her wear revealing clothing in public. Platform heels. Sexy arm candy.
Do devious things with her in bed.
This sounds like fun
 

El Payaso

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Sounds like a bunny boiler to me. Think with your upper head not your lower head.
 

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I read this and there was alarm bells flashing in my head from the first sentence

Very hot &” O.L.D “ should rarely be used in the same sentence

Secondly has it occurred to you that she wants to be “controlled” simply because she wants to rebel ?

With all due respect this chick sounds like SERIOUS trouble I would leave her well alone
 

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She sounds just like this red headed spinner I've had at my beck and call the previous 4 years. She is vocal about writing a contract to be my slave. Wants to be controlled, led, yelled at, whipped, bruised, and degraded. I don't even call her by her name, just her pet name. She's never given me issues but she's so passive and submissive she has no desire to challenge me on anything.

I would be careful initially until your sure she's not going to bring drama into your life. Then have fun. I met this girl when she was 18 she's 22 now and stuck on me. It's awesome!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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either she's hardcore into S&M or she's hardcore insane, tread carefully, don't get too invested, always have a backup plan/way out but have fun
 
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