"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Doing stuff with an unexperienced chick

WORKEROUTER

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I've made out with this chick pretty heavy a couple times, and I wana do some more stuff. The problem is that she has had very little experience past just making out.

How should I ease us into doing more stuff besides making out? Should I start by feeling her up a lot, gradually taking it to the next level? Should I mention to her about doing some more stuff?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lifeforce

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No do not mention anything about doing more stuff. It will just give her a reason to say no or to protest. Otherwise it seems good, do be aware that she might not want it and will show it through glances and stuff, make sure you are aware off her reactions and if possible show her that it's alright.
 

Desdinova

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Your best bet is to make her feel as comfortable around her as possible. If you've learned anything on this site, you should already have done this by using both kino and ****y/funny. Treating her like she's you're bratty little sister is the key to making her comfortable around you.

If you've made her feel incredibly comfortable around you, you should just be able to lead her to where you want to be. When she's comfortable with you, she'll trust you and you'll be able to make her feel that there's nothing wrong with going beyond making out.
 

DeathDealer

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well this is not bad, at least you don't have a slvt h0 on your hands. just tell her what kinda stuff you'd like to try and see if she's open to it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Golden Arms

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it's OK if she's the one who doesn't have experience ..as long as you do and you can guide her along then. I think it's a lot better than if she had the experience and I didn't
 
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