"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Doing stuff with an unexperienced chick

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I've made out with this chick pretty heavy a couple times, and I wana do some more stuff. The problem is that she has had very little experience past just making out.

How should I ease us into doing more stuff besides making out? Should I start by feeling her up a lot, gradually taking it to the next level? Should I mention to her about doing some more stuff?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No do not mention anything about doing more stuff. It will just give her a reason to say no or to protest. Otherwise it seems good, do be aware that she might not want it and will show it through glances and stuff, make sure you are aware off her reactions and if possible show her that it's alright.
 
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Your best bet is to make her feel as comfortable around her as possible. If you've learned anything on this site, you should already have done this by using both kino and ****y/funny. Treating her like she's you're bratty little sister is the key to making her comfortable around you.

If you've made her feel incredibly comfortable around you, you should just be able to lead her to where you want to be. When she's comfortable with you, she'll trust you and you'll be able to make her feel that there's nothing wrong with going beyond making out.
 
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well this is not bad, at least you don't have a slvt h0 on your hands. just tell her what kinda stuff you'd like to try and see if she's open to it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it's OK if she's the one who doesn't have experience ..as long as you do and you can guide her along then. I think it's a lot better than if she had the experience and I didn't
 
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