"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Doing stuff with an unexperienced chick

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I've made out with this chick pretty heavy a couple times, and I wana do some more stuff. The problem is that she has had very little experience past just making out.

How should I ease us into doing more stuff besides making out? Should I start by feeling her up a lot, gradually taking it to the next level? Should I mention to her about doing some more stuff?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No do not mention anything about doing more stuff. It will just give her a reason to say no or to protest. Otherwise it seems good, do be aware that she might not want it and will show it through glances and stuff, make sure you are aware off her reactions and if possible show her that it's alright.
 
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Your best bet is to make her feel as comfortable around her as possible. If you've learned anything on this site, you should already have done this by using both kino and ****y/funny. Treating her like she's you're bratty little sister is the key to making her comfortable around you.

If you've made her feel incredibly comfortable around you, you should just be able to lead her to where you want to be. When she's comfortable with you, she'll trust you and you'll be able to make her feel that there's nothing wrong with going beyond making out.
 
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well this is not bad, at least you don't have a slvt h0 on your hands. just tell her what kinda stuff you'd like to try and see if she's open to it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it's OK if she's the one who doesn't have experience ..as long as you do and you can guide her along then. I think it's a lot better than if she had the experience and I didn't
 
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