"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Doing something outside of work with someone. Breaking out of "friends at work only"

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How do you do something with someone outside of work?
How do you break out of the "we're just friends at work" box?


I don't have many friends to go out with, so thats the problem. BTW, I'm 20 and work at a crappy department store.

It always seems that I can make friends with girls and stuff at work pretty easily. You know, I really make them laugh alot and they say that I'm hilarious and cute, etc (thats cool, i'm not looking for ONS or GF....got a FB) but it's like only at work.

I want to go out and do things with them and talk to them outside of work. How do I do this?

The thing is that I have a friend or two from highschool and then a few good friends at college(but they live over an hour away). So you see, I don't really go to any parties on the weekend as I mostly study(I go to pub nights usually every Wednesday, stay over at friends house). So you can see that I would ask them out to come to a party or whatever but I don't have any parties to go to. :(

I'm trying to get my life on track and get some great new friends, but it's hard when you don't currently belong to a social circle and have nowhere to invite people to go to.

Sometimes it just seems as though maybe they don't want to do anything with me outside of work.


Some help would be greatly appreciated,
John
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Put your hat on, and pretend like you're Julie. Oh wait, probably a little before your time.

Anyway, act like you're the cruise director. Organize happy hours after work or whatever. Try to get everyone from work to go sing Kareoke after work, or shoot pool, rob a bank, whatever. If there are other stores nearby where you or other people know people, invite them as well. Try to get a group together to go do things together after work. Then isolate any targets you might be interested in. That has worked for me on plenty of occasions. I have had the fortune(Mis???) to date plenty of women who worked with/for me.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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