"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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doing nothing the best solution?

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Hey fellas, whaz up?:D First post here thanx for having this forum. Anyway I got a question for u all. Basically, the story is that I have been 'friends' with some people @ work for about 2-3 years now. When we first met I had a LTR that has since ended. I started this thing with this girl from work and she fell in love with me but to me it was just a casual thing. This has continued for about the last 2 years on and off. I just found out that my other boy from work hooked up with this girl too! This was probably about a year ago. Now, this girl was never my girlfriend, but obviously a little jealousy kicked in (which is why I'm here). I haven't said anything to her about the fact that I know or anything, and I dont plan on it. I don't feel like I have a right to be mad, but for some reason I feel differently towards him now. Im sure he is loyal and would never have done it if this girl and I were 'together', or if he even knew we were hooking up on and off...trouble is we hid that fact from everyone. So, Im just looking for opinions, would you be mad about this situation? And if so at who?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Shame on you for being jealous - hors are everyone's property!!
 
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I'm a 'hor' too. I know she's seen other people, I guess what bothers me is that this is somebody I know and hang out with. I know she liked the guy before she liked me, but for some reason it still bothers me. Its not that big of a deal since Im not planning on a LTR with her, I guess I was just looking for similar situations/stories to make me feel a little better about it. :rolleyes:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ah whatever it's all good. It's normal to feel a bit of jealousy. You can't control your feelings, but you can control what you do with them. It's good that you at least realize these feelings you're having and are able to rationalize their validity. Just look for other scores and this situation will bother you less and less as time passes.
 
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!. You are screwing her and not your friend.

2. She went with your friend knowing that he was your friend.

3. You still went to her on a voluntarily basis

4. She screwed many dudes that were not your friend!

5. Hors are not loyal to just one pimp

6. A hor sees a penis as a penis and does not care about friendly bonds between men - in fact she enjoys fraternizing with men who know each other so that she could be the topic of their conversation!
 
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PeurtoRican Lover I thought you were gone man... keep up the good posts!
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There is much work to be done with so little time!!! As long as the homo/hor agenda is trumpeted in the ears of young men I will stand against it and be a beacon of truth for those who want to become men and follow the natural order of things!!
 
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Haha, I love #6... I'm ashamed to say I've fell in that hole myself, but since learned very much from it... now I see it all the time between other dudes that I know... It's rediculous.
 
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Shame on you for being jealous - hors are everyone's property!!
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LOL outstanding!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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