:nono: Me and the lady broke up about a month and a half ago. I have been doing awesome, with the exception of a few lonely days. And even then, it wasn't about missing her more just bein' lonely and not staying busy.
Well last night a couple of the boys were gonna meet up to shoot some pool and drink. We got there, and sure enough there was her car. For whatever reason I decided to go in anyway. As soon as I walked in, she was right there, so I couldn't ignore her. She was with her mom and dad, and some of her friends. it was her dad's b-day. I met everyone, said happy b-day to the old man and bought him a drink, said hi to her, and got back to my buds.
4 beers later, i decided to go over to them again, and ask the ex if we could talk for a bit. (we haven't had a civil convo since the split) She agreed and came and sat with me at the bar. At first I kept it casual... how's work, family, etc. Probably should have just stopped there, but for some reason the "are you dating anyone" question slipped out.
"Actually I went on a date last night with this guy Justin, it was awesome. he treated me really well." -My heart sank. I tried to play it off, but I was obviously affected. At this point I ended the convo, and said have a good night and went back to my friends. I soon left, went home, and went to bed.
I have been trying to get this out of my head. I had made so much progress over the last month, and now this. I need to pick myself up here...I need a picker-upper. I didn't need to here that. I should have just avoided her in the first place.
Well last night a couple of the boys were gonna meet up to shoot some pool and drink. We got there, and sure enough there was her car. For whatever reason I decided to go in anyway. As soon as I walked in, she was right there, so I couldn't ignore her. She was with her mom and dad, and some of her friends. it was her dad's b-day. I met everyone, said happy b-day to the old man and bought him a drink, said hi to her, and got back to my buds.
4 beers later, i decided to go over to them again, and ask the ex if we could talk for a bit. (we haven't had a civil convo since the split) She agreed and came and sat with me at the bar. At first I kept it casual... how's work, family, etc. Probably should have just stopped there, but for some reason the "are you dating anyone" question slipped out.
"Actually I went on a date last night with this guy Justin, it was awesome. he treated me really well." -My heart sank. I tried to play it off, but I was obviously affected. At this point I ended the convo, and said have a good night and went back to my friends. I soon left, went home, and went to bed.
I have been trying to get this out of my head. I had made so much progress over the last month, and now this. I need to pick myself up here...I need a picker-upper. I didn't need to here that. I should have just avoided her in the first place.
