"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Doing Cardio Before Weights Session?

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I'm trying to trim a thin layer of fat from the old stomach of mine. I normally do my cardio after my workout. But i've found this is getting too tiredsome, im normally soo tired from the weights that i can be stuffed doing any cardio and sometimes don't even bother.

So today i did my cardio before my weights. I found that i could go harder and longer, and it was more interesting...

I'm just wondering if it better to do cardio before or after your workout?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why not do them on separate days? Or at least several hours apart. If they are to be in the same session then weights first and cardio last. The cardio will help to transport out various waste products from the muscles which are prevalent after a hard resistance session.
 
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Originally posted by Sentrility
I'm trying to trim a thin layer of fat from the old stomach of mine.
No carbs after 6pm. Cardo on NON LIFTING days. Your workout plus cardio is chewing up lots of muscle. Your body will metabolize muscle just as good as fat, maybe better. Keep your cardio AWAY from your workout. I would look into interval training if I were you. HIIT.
 

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Originally posted by Sentrility
I'm trying to trim a thin layer of fat from the old stomach of mine. I normally do my cardio after my workout. But i've found this is getting too tiredsome, im normally soo tired from the weights that i can be stuffed doing any cardio and sometimes don't even bother.

So today i did my cardio before my weights. I found that i could go harder and longer, and it was more interesting...

I'm just wondering if it better to do cardio before or after your workout?
If you're interested soley in losing the fat then do it before your workout.

But weights come first if you're interested in BB.
 

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I'm an avid fan of cardio b4 workout. 20-30 mins do it for me.

Can't complain. 230 pounds and I'm almost done cutting.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sentrility

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Im still not loosing enough weight and ive been working out for almost 2 months.

Umm...I suppose it takes a while, but im not noticing a significant loss in fat, rather more muscle growth. Perhaps i need to take some herbal fat binder tablets and change my diet even more. :(

Grr..Cutting is hard :( Gaining muscle is soo much easier!
 
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