REDUCE523
Don Juan
Got a number from HB8 she gave me the number didnt even ask for it called once left a message. Should I next????
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Doesnt pick up phone?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
Sounds like she is one step ahead of you and nexted you already....
How long has it been since you called? If you like her maybe you should call back and see whats up. Sometimes people get caught up in other things and forget to call. If its been a few days try to call now and see what's up.
How long has it been since you called? If you like her maybe you should call back and see whats up. Sometimes people get caught up in other things and forget to call. If its been a few days try to call now and see what's up.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
I don't believe she has nexted you.... And in addition, a DJ should never believe that a girl could do that to you. She might have alot going on... many guys to cut from the list... therefore no extra effort could be spared.
Just NExt her... or wait a bit and send her a text (courtesy of DD).
"So you playing hard to get... Cute.... Call ME" then let her make the next move..
Just NExt her... or wait a bit and send her a text (courtesy of DD).
"So you playing hard to get... Cute.... Call ME" then let her make the next move..
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
I like to call about 3 times in a row, and on the third time I yell "PICK UP YOUR PHONE" on their voicemail.
Suprisingly it works very well.
Suprisingly it works very well.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Ha Ha....How do you respond when she calls... Do you remain non-chalant?I like to call about 3 times in a row, and on the third time I yell "PICK UP YOUR PHONE" on their voicemail. Suprisingly it works very well.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
So a true DJ must be delusional? Uh huh... *narrows eyes*a DJ should never believe that a girl could do that to you
Sometimes us guys are just nexted. Thats the reality.
gimmeyofonenumba
Master Don Juan
lol. I did the same thing a few weeks ago, and i thought i was being to harsh, I said "hey we were supposed to meet up and make plans for lunch, and Iam hungry, SO PICK UP THE PHONE"Originally posted by animal crackers
I like to call about 3 times in a row, and on the third time I yell "PICK UP YOUR PHONE" on their voicemail.
Suprisingly it works very well.
bootlegger
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I had to add my .02 here.
When you get this number, let her know right then and there that you don't do flaky b**ches.
say (with a smile) "is this a number that you are going to answer, because I don't do messages, and I don't play phone tag"
Trust me, the girl will NOT call your bluff.
When you get this number, let her know right then and there that you don't do flaky b**ches.
say (with a smile) "is this a number that you are going to answer, because I don't do messages, and I don't play phone tag"
Trust me, the girl will NOT call your bluff.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Who's reality do you live in... Her's or yours????I'm Joe Dirt wrote:
So a true DJ must be delusional? Uh huh... *narrows eyes* Sometimes us guys are just nexted. Thats the reality.
It isn't delusional, but a unquestionable confidence in oneself that there must be other mitigating circumstances that prevented her from responding... In any event, you wouldn't give a toss anyway... let alone entertain the though that she might next you...