REDUCE523
Don Juan
Got a number from HB8 she gave me the number didnt even ask for it called once left a message. Should I next????
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Doesnt pick up phone?
- Thread starter REDUCE523
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
Sounds like she is one step ahead of you and nexted you already....
How long has it been since you called? If you like her maybe you should call back and see whats up. Sometimes people get caught up in other things and forget to call. If its been a few days try to call now and see what's up.
How long has it been since you called? If you like her maybe you should call back and see whats up. Sometimes people get caught up in other things and forget to call. If its been a few days try to call now and see what's up.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
I don't believe she has nexted you.... And in addition, a DJ should never believe that a girl could do that to you. She might have alot going on... many guys to cut from the list... therefore no extra effort could be spared.
Just NExt her... or wait a bit and send her a text (courtesy of DD).
"So you playing hard to get... Cute.... Call ME" then let her make the next move..
Just NExt her... or wait a bit and send her a text (courtesy of DD).
"So you playing hard to get... Cute.... Call ME" then let her make the next move..
animal crackers
Senior Don Juan
I like to call about 3 times in a row, and on the third time I yell "PICK UP YOUR PHONE" on their voicemail.
Suprisingly it works very well.
Suprisingly it works very well.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Ha Ha....How do you respond when she calls... Do you remain non-chalant?I like to call about 3 times in a row, and on the third time I yell "PICK UP YOUR PHONE" on their voicemail. Suprisingly it works very well.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
So a true DJ must be delusional? Uh huh... *narrows eyes*a DJ should never believe that a girl could do that to you
Sometimes us guys are just nexted. Thats the reality.
gimmeyofonenumba
Master Don Juan
lol. I did the same thing a few weeks ago, and i thought i was being to harsh, I said "hey we were supposed to meet up and make plans for lunch, and Iam hungry, SO PICK UP THE PHONE"Originally posted by animal crackers
I like to call about 3 times in a row, and on the third time I yell "PICK UP YOUR PHONE" on their voicemail.
Suprisingly it works very well.
bootlegger
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I had to add my .02 here.
When you get this number, let her know right then and there that you don't do flaky b**ches.
say (with a smile) "is this a number that you are going to answer, because I don't do messages, and I don't play phone tag"
Trust me, the girl will NOT call your bluff.
When you get this number, let her know right then and there that you don't do flaky b**ches.
say (with a smile) "is this a number that you are going to answer, because I don't do messages, and I don't play phone tag"
Trust me, the girl will NOT call your bluff.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Who's reality do you live in... Her's or yours????I'm Joe Dirt wrote:
So a true DJ must be delusional? Uh huh... *narrows eyes* Sometimes us guys are just nexted. Thats the reality.
It isn't delusional, but a unquestionable confidence in oneself that there must be other mitigating circumstances that prevented her from responding... In any event, you wouldn't give a toss anyway... let alone entertain the though that she might next you...