"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Doesnt pick up phone?

REDUCE523

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Got a number from HB8 she gave me the number didnt even ask for it called once left a message. Should I next????
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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Sounds like she is one step ahead of you and nexted you already....

How long has it been since you called? If you like her maybe you should call back and see whats up. Sometimes people get caught up in other things and forget to call. If its been a few days try to call now and see what's up.
 

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I don't believe she has nexted you.... And in addition, a DJ should never believe that a girl could do that to you. She might have alot going on... many guys to cut from the list... therefore no extra effort could be spared.

Just NExt her... or wait a bit and send her a text (courtesy of DD).
"So you playing hard to get... Cute.... Call ME" then let her make the next move..
 

animal crackers

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I like to call about 3 times in a row, and on the third time I yell "PICK UP YOUR PHONE" on their voicemail.

Suprisingly it works very well.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gimmeyofonenumba

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Originally posted by animal crackers
I like to call about 3 times in a row, and on the third time I yell "PICK UP YOUR PHONE" on their voicemail.

Suprisingly it works very well.
lol. I did the same thing a few weeks ago, and i thought i was being to harsh, I said "hey we were supposed to meet up and make plans for lunch, and Iam hungry, SO PICK UP THE PHONE"
 

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I had to add my .02 here.


When you get this number, let her know right then and there that you don't do flaky b**ches.

say (with a smile) "is this a number that you are going to answer, because I don't do messages, and I don't play phone tag"

Trust me, the girl will NOT call your bluff.
 

MacDiddy

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I'm Joe Dirt wrote:
So a true DJ must be delusional? Uh huh... *narrows eyes* Sometimes us guys are just nexted. Thats the reality.
Who's reality do you live in... Her's or yours????

It isn't delusional, but a unquestionable confidence in oneself that there must be other mitigating circumstances that prevented her from responding... In any event, you wouldn't give a toss anyway... let alone entertain the though that she might next you...
 
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