"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Does your job matter?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
so i would say getting a job is vital for your relationship
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
sure it does...
come on you dont want a phone sex babe and you dont want a chick that is never going to advance any further at her job than from fry girl to cashier girl.
themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
strids97
Don Juan
If you meet a girl and she wants to know how much money you make, well thats not a good thing...If you are happy with your life and enjoy your job, thats what matters. There are so many people out there that hate there jobs eventhough they make a crap load...but someone who doesn't enjoy what they do, actually brings more stress to a relationship. It shouldn't matter how much you make...a girl needs to like you for who you are not for how much money you make...if she cares about your money, you won't have it...trust me i've learned the hardway!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
themanwithnoname
Senior Don Juan
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
Not necessarily true. If a woman asks you how much you make you might have a gold digger on your hands. I would never answer such a question.
But if a woman simply inquires if you simply have a full time job or not (perhaps even what you do, but not asking about your income) and you're in your late 20s or beyond, than thats a valid question. Afterall as later years set in they are looking for a provider.
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Hey, haha 30 k a year is very good dough to some people, but ah, i wouldnt let that get in the way...
for instance,
i drove a geo metro....piece of crap trust me
no job...
live with parents...
and still i think i got the don juan magic, i can get laid anytime i want (I have three girls in rotation), im confident that i can get at least 3 numbers a nite...
like master p said...its not where ya from, its how ya come...
imagine if i had a job...a nice car...hmmm..i wonder.........
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
>>>FAST FORWARD>>>
"Gold digger?" "Looking for a provider?" Excuse me, isn't that one in the same?????
Scary huh???
al77
Master Don Juan
Why would a guy worry about what she does for a living?
She is not going to be a provider for their family or for him, therefore it doesnt matter what she does.
if girls care about you having a job, then what a shame. all i care about is the person, not if they have a job. i guess it depends on how long you have been with the person and if you're living together... you'll need a job to pay the bills, etc.
but yes, alot of women judge us by what job we have. or if we have one at all. those kinda women are the b|tches.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
I rarely, almost never ask people about their jobs. Why? Because most of the time, if you ask someone something, they're likely to ask the same question back.
I get uneasy whenever someone asks me because my frank and honest answer is that I'm unemployed (I get money from my parents and that's how I pay my bills).I wouldn't be surprised if this causes them to feel resentment, because they may be thinking "Why do I have to work and he doesn't?"
I know one girl asked me what I did for a living. I told her the truth, and I could tell she didn't like the answer much. Next time someone asks me, I might try to be funny (i.e. "can't tell you, that's a secret" or "if I tell you I'd have to kill you, and that would be a damn shame").
No earned income, I drive a pickup truck, I live with Mom and Dad, and I have no women. Go figure.
Needless to say, I make a point to avoid talking about how I make my money (because I don't), what car I drive (since it sucks), or my living situation.
Ben
P.S. For the record, I am trying to figure out a source of income. I only say this so you guys won't hate me too.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Some of you would be assed out of your father decided he was going to quit his job because it was too stressful.
Now, it's an extreme plus if you can love what you do, trust me, being misable at work is nothign like not having food on the table, struggling to pay bills, etc.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.