"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Does your job matter?

Junior Sanz

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Authenticity in character is worth more than any salary or title when it comes to becoming a DJ. [/B][/QUOTE]







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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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madgame

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I know that money does matter but how important is it?
Let say I'm making $30,000 a year and I like my job.

But how much of that weighs in a girl decision to go out with me?
Should I go for a career change to make more money?
You really shouldn't base your decision of a career change because the girls might like it more (and I'm not even of the guys who say don't do ANYTHING because of women). Seriously we're all human and money does and always will matter..especially because it comes with status (people who say it doesnt are like people who say looks dont matter), but it shouldn't be the decisive reason when it comes to building a relationship. It should be more like a plus..and if you like you're job don't go for a career change if you don't like the direction it will lead you in. If you do, go for it. Can I ask you what your job is btw (unless you want to keep it a secret)?
 
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