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Master Don Juan
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Women really care about cars.Only guys care about cars
they can’t even tell the difference between a 2007 bmw and 2021 lmaoWomen really care about cars.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I don't think you could eitherAre you 12 years old?
pull up in a 15 year old OPEL Corsa, with any woman who has the slightest sniff of her 5+ SMVthey can’t even tell the difference between a 2007 bmw and 2021 lmao
Ive driven a crappy old Hyundai, a 2019 Shelby Mustang, and now a 60k F150. The only differences I saw were dudes trying to talk me at drive thrus and parking lots.pull up in a 15 year old OPEL Corsa, with any woman who has the slightest sniff of her 5+ SMV
your value will plummit
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
she's not even hot lolView attachment 5962
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I'm a nurse and I run a onlyfans page where I show my body for money.
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Ok. But try a Porsche or some gold digger car. Might be different.Ive driven a crappy old Hyundai, a 2019 Shelby Mustang, and now a 60k F150. The only differences I saw were dudes trying to talk me at drive thrus and parking lots.
Women DO care about your financial status (car, outfit, habitat etc.). They allways are up for the best deal they can get. Thats whats called "hypergamy".Only guys care about cars
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Way to move the goal post lmaoOk. But try a Porsche or some gold digger car. Might be different.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯I had a very attractive neighbor at my last apartment who would rarely even say hello when we crossed paths...I got a rental upgrade to a 2021 Mustang for a weekend trip.
While I was loading up my bags she enthusiastically came over and started a long conversation with me. Eventually she told me about the bar she works at and which nights. I told her it was just a rental and she laughed saying “don’t tell anyone else that!”
Yep. We need to be aware of their fantasy and dreams.Women DO care about your financial status (car, outfit, habitat etc.). They allways are up for the best deal they can get. Thats whats called "hypergamy".
Guys dont give a **** about her car or financial status.
so is a woman going to choose a Dave Ramsey millionaire guy with more in savings and driving a old Toyota with a single story ranch house in the sticks or the flashy guy making 300k with a Porsche and nice apartment lolYep. We need to be aware of their fantasy and dreams.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.