Jango_Xavier
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just wondering if it works so if anyone knows about it id appreciate any feed back about it.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Most of the bodybuilders you see in the muscle mags and on the bodybuilding shows are usually on the juice, so of course they look like a bunch of freakin mutants. So take that into consideration before you totally eliminate weightlifting. But you're right also, bodyweight exercises and natural gynastics exercises like pilates are a great workout and provides the user with with fucntional strength.Originally posted by Jango_Xavier
yeah,but dude i dont wonna look like a bodybuilder i find bodybuilders have the ugliest bodies and i also have enough muscles maybe apart from my abs but when i lose the fat and i dont have enough muscle i'll go do some weightlifting, maybe.
http://www.pilates.com/cgi-bin/webi...ss.html&cart_id=159770_180534&refer_id=eurekaOriginally posted by Jango_Xavier
just wondering if it works so if anyone knows about it id appreciate any feed back about it.