Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Does this work for flakes?

Exhumed

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Just hypothetically...no specific girl here...if a girl flakes on you/says she's busy for a second or third time but you think she miiight still be interested, could you say something like

Her: Omg your going to kill me...i can't make it tonight cause ____. sorryy!! maybe sometime next week? :)
You: Okay, but I'm leaving the next move up to you :) I don't have time to waste chasing after little girls. ;)
Her: hah okay :p
*no further contact unless she contacts you*

Would that work? You're dhv'ing and forcing her to pursue you, while making sure she knows you won't play her games. ...right? I'm sorta new at this.

...and yes, I suppose you could just assume she'll text later if she's interested...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It won't work unless her interest level was through the roof. Also if it were through the roof to begin with she wouldn't be flaking.

C+F like that only works if you know the girls into you. Coming off like that, you just sound like an a$$hole and she probably won't care because she has more important things to do.

Instead of that you should have just immediately offered another time for next week and depending on her response, you'd know whether or not she was playing games/stringing you along or digs you and wants to hang out.
 
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