"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does this work for flakes?

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Just hypothetically...no specific girl here...if a girl flakes on you/says she's busy for a second or third time but you think she miiight still be interested, could you say something like

Her: Omg your going to kill me...i can't make it tonight cause ____. sorryy!! maybe sometime next week? :)
You: Okay, but I'm leaving the next move up to you :) I don't have time to waste chasing after little girls. ;)
Her: hah okay :p
*no further contact unless she contacts you*

Would that work? You're dhv'ing and forcing her to pursue you, while making sure she knows you won't play her games. ...right? I'm sorta new at this.

...and yes, I suppose you could just assume she'll text later if she's interested...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It won't work unless her interest level was through the roof. Also if it were through the roof to begin with she wouldn't be flaking.

C+F like that only works if you know the girls into you. Coming off like that, you just sound like an a$$hole and she probably won't care because she has more important things to do.

Instead of that you should have just immediately offered another time for next week and depending on her response, you'd know whether or not she was playing games/stringing you along or digs you and wants to hang out.
 
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