"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does this work for flakes?

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Just hypothetically...no specific girl here...if a girl flakes on you/says she's busy for a second or third time but you think she miiight still be interested, could you say something like

Her: Omg your going to kill me...i can't make it tonight cause ____. sorryy!! maybe sometime next week? :)
You: Okay, but I'm leaving the next move up to you :) I don't have time to waste chasing after little girls. ;)
Her: hah okay :p
*no further contact unless she contacts you*

Would that work? You're dhv'ing and forcing her to pursue you, while making sure she knows you won't play her games. ...right? I'm sorta new at this.

...and yes, I suppose you could just assume she'll text later if she's interested...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It won't work unless her interest level was through the roof. Also if it were through the roof to begin with she wouldn't be flaking.

C+F like that only works if you know the girls into you. Coming off like that, you just sound like an a$$hole and she probably won't care because she has more important things to do.

Instead of that you should have just immediately offered another time for next week and depending on her response, you'd know whether or not she was playing games/stringing you along or digs you and wants to hang out.
 
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