"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does this seem like a good idea?

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I have a crush on this girl, but I haven't really talked to her in almost four months. This is because we had a class together last semester but this semester we dont. Now, I only have one chance to see her, when we pass each other in the hallway between first and second period. I want to ask her out but since it's been so long, i think it would seem kind of weird to do that so abruptly. I would like to talk to her and get to know her a little better first, so I was thinking of asking her if she wants to hang out with my friends and I at lunch. A few of my friends think this is a bad idea and that I should just call her and ask her out, but I still think that seems kind of sudden. Any ideas/opinions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No offense, really, bro... but i really did not read that but I'm thinking I know what you are asking... Here's a short answer for your question:

Are you confident with it? Do you think this will work? If you do not know, then do it. If you ever saw someone else do it, then do it but only if it was sucessful.
 
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Well, I have done this before with a different girl, but I knew the girl a lot better beforehand. So yeah, I'm pretty confident about this, I just wanted to hear some second opinions or if anyone else here has done this.
 
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Well yeah i'll second you about being confident then. People are different so opinions are different as well, bro. GO FOR IT. good luck, also.
 
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Go for it, your not a complete stranger;
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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three words.... GET ER' DONE...:p
 
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