"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does this seem like a good idea?

vincent vega

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I have a crush on this girl, but I haven't really talked to her in almost four months. This is because we had a class together last semester but this semester we dont. Now, I only have one chance to see her, when we pass each other in the hallway between first and second period. I want to ask her out but since it's been so long, i think it would seem kind of weird to do that so abruptly. I would like to talk to her and get to know her a little better first, so I was thinking of asking her if she wants to hang out with my friends and I at lunch. A few of my friends think this is a bad idea and that I should just call her and ask her out, but I still think that seems kind of sudden. Any ideas/opinions?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No offense, really, bro... but i really did not read that but I'm thinking I know what you are asking... Here's a short answer for your question:

Are you confident with it? Do you think this will work? If you do not know, then do it. If you ever saw someone else do it, then do it but only if it was sucessful.
 

vincent vega

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Well, I have done this before with a different girl, but I knew the girl a lot better beforehand. So yeah, I'm pretty confident about this, I just wanted to hear some second opinions or if anyone else here has done this.
 

tactic

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Well yeah i'll second you about being confident then. People are different so opinions are different as well, bro. GO FOR IT. good luck, also.
 

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Go for it, your not a complete stranger;
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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three words.... GET ER' DONE...:p
 
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