"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Does this mean anything?
- Thread starter david90
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Yeah, you got stuck into the friendzone...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
She's interest in being friendly with you, though the fact that she asked a personal question does signify some interest.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
girl: "So, what kinda girls are you into?"
this is a females way to find out if you're either weird (discovering your fetishes) or to know your desperation... it could mean anything, but it doesn't get you to first base.
She could be looking out for one of her single friends, that she could fix you up with depending on what you say. But with this girl, you're not gonna get her. She told you she has a boyfriend... right? Did you ASK her if she had a boyfriend, or did she TELL you? If you asked, that wasn't smart (but in a way it is), and if she just TOLD you, that's her way of saying "so back the hell up, can't have these goodies.."
So, stop letting this question in your mind develop into something it's not, it honestly wasn't worth posting on this forum. You know it didn't mean anything, it's only a question. If you let this question develop into something unreal in your mind, you're gonna get "one-itis". Ain't that a bytch?