"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Does this mean anything?
- Thread starter david90
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Yeah, you got stuck into the friendzone...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
She's interest in being friendly with you, though the fact that she asked a personal question does signify some interest.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
girl: "So, what kinda girls are you into?"
this is a females way to find out if you're either weird (discovering your fetishes) or to know your desperation... it could mean anything, but it doesn't get you to first base.
She could be looking out for one of her single friends, that she could fix you up with depending on what you say. But with this girl, you're not gonna get her. She told you she has a boyfriend... right? Did you ASK her if she had a boyfriend, or did she TELL you? If you asked, that wasn't smart (but in a way it is), and if she just TOLD you, that's her way of saying "so back the hell up, can't have these goodies.."
So, stop letting this question in your mind develop into something it's not, it honestly wasn't worth posting on this forum. You know it didn't mean anything, it's only a question. If you let this question develop into something unreal in your mind, you're gonna get "one-itis". Ain't that a bytch?