"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Does this mean anything?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Yeah, you got stuck into the friendzone...
rgeere
Master Don Juan
She's interest in being friendly with you, though the fact that she asked a personal question does signify some interest.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
the_great_gaia
Senior Don Juan
girl: "So, what kinda girls are you into?"
this is a females way to find out if you're either weird (discovering your fetishes) or to know your desperation... it could mean anything, but it doesn't get you to first base.
She could be looking out for one of her single friends, that she could fix you up with depending on what you say. But with this girl, you're not gonna get her. She told you she has a boyfriend... right? Did you ASK her if she had a boyfriend, or did she TELL you? If you asked, that wasn't smart (but in a way it is), and if she just TOLD you, that's her way of saying "so back the hell up, can't have these goodies.."
So, stop letting this question in your mind develop into something it's not, it honestly wasn't worth posting on this forum. You know it didn't mean anything, it's only a question. If you let this question develop into something unreal in your mind, you're gonna get "one-itis". Ain't that a bytch?