Went to a big house party at a friends house a couple weeks ago and hit it off with a couple that lives a few hours away from me. The gal in the couple was pretty drunk but kept saying me and a female friend of mine who was also at the party should come visit them. Said we could go out to the bars or whatever and that she had a girlfriend from work that she wanted to introduce me to. Like I said, she was pretty drunk and was flirting with me way more than I would have been comfortable with if I was her bf. Her friend was pretty smokin, but doesn't it seem kinda desperate to follow up with her and be like "hey, about me coming to visit..." what would you guys do in this situation? I may likely never see these two people again, otherwise.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Does this make me look desperate?
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