Went to a big house party at a friends house a couple weeks ago and hit it off with a couple that lives a few hours away from me. The gal in the couple was pretty drunk but kept saying me and a female friend of mine who was also at the party should come visit them. Said we could go out to the bars or whatever and that she had a girlfriend from work that she wanted to introduce me to. Like I said, she was pretty drunk and was flirting with me way more than I would have been comfortable with if I was her bf. Her friend was pretty smokin, but doesn't it seem kinda desperate to follow up with her and be like "hey, about me coming to visit..." what would you guys do in this situation? I may likely never see these two people again, otherwise.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Does this make me look desperate?
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