Went to a big house party at a friends house a couple weeks ago and hit it off with a couple that lives a few hours away from me. The gal in the couple was pretty drunk but kept saying me and a female friend of mine who was also at the party should come visit them. Said we could go out to the bars or whatever and that she had a girlfriend from work that she wanted to introduce me to. Like I said, she was pretty drunk and was flirting with me way more than I would have been comfortable with if I was her bf. Her friend was pretty smokin, but doesn't it seem kinda desperate to follow up with her and be like "hey, about me coming to visit..." what would you guys do in this situation? I may likely never see these two people again, otherwise.
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Does this make me look desperate?
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SmooveMooves
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If she's in.your social circle wait for her to bring it back up, if not, forget about it and focus on other plates.
You answered your own question
"hey, about me coming to visit...." = " Hey, remember when you offered me to hang out with you and a buddy while we were both drunk? I'd really like that opportunity because I have dont have any other options"
It would come off as desperate bro.
You answered your own question
"hey, about me coming to visit...." = " Hey, remember when you offered me to hang out with you and a buddy while we were both drunk? I'd really like that opportunity because I have dont have any other options"
It would come off as desperate bro.
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I disagree with SmooveMooves, if she extended the invitation as well as a number to contact her, then there is no desperation in saying "Hey wanna hang out sometime?" If she remembers the drunk encounter she'll either tell you a good date for it or she'll say she was too drunk and can't see you.
You don't have to word it like a weirdo: "Hey so remember when you were drunk af and brought up hanging out in the future? I wanna try that!" Just be relaxed, hit her up and see what happens. Worst case scenario is you strike out and never see her again anyways.
You don't have to word it like a weirdo: "Hey so remember when you were drunk af and brought up hanging out in the future? I wanna try that!" Just be relaxed, hit her up and see what happens. Worst case scenario is you strike out and never see her again anyways.
I would be less interested in getting with the girl that invited me because she has a bf, but to meet this work friend of hers that she said is single. I may have made that confusing by saying she was really flirting with me.MrNiceGuy23 said:
Your point still stands about not making it creepy if I did try though.
MOTU
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I don't think it would be creepy either. Send her something funny from the night and see where the convo goes.