"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
does this hoe deserve my apologee?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
b) well, i dont think you should have let her drink or given her a drink (specially if you know her older sister), but i dont think that you should apologise unless shes really pissed off about it.
c)apologise if you think u made a mistake
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
If you have a gut feeling saying you did something wrong, then apologize for it. Your gut is usually correct, even if you don't think it is.
The things that I will apologize for is if I did something wrong, if I hurt someone else without knowing it (i.e. hurting someones feelings), or doing something really mean.
Preferably i don't drink and don't want anyone getting mixed up in it.
Lets look at this through objective eyes.
A.) You said "drink if you want to" (just taking wild guess on this. I figure that you are smart enough not to force her to do anything)
B.) She drank on her own free will. No one forced the drink down her throat
C.) Now you are asking for us to tell you if it is alright to apologize. If the sister you just want to bone and you make an apology than it is not alright. If you feel genuinely sorry for it than yes apologize.
Centy
Don Juan
and yes, you should apologize to her sister and to her. You should have known better than to let a 13year old drink. It's called common sense.
You didn't do anything wrong, screw her sister. Its not like you stuck a beer bong in her mouth and forced her to drink.
Appologize if you want, but IMHO you didn't do anything wrong. I know i wouldn't apologize, then again i never do.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
i dont know........ my WM said "do you realize that shes only 14 and you let her drink? you should be more responsible?"
im thinking it bubbles down to weather its a LTR or just for fun.
EDIT: i meant hoe because i refer to all girls by something that sets me higher than them. actually shes kind of like a LJBF friend.
Centy
Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
Don't apologize, especially if the older sister is pissed. Tell ehr to take that **** out on her younger sis, all you did was show her how to have a good time and prepare her young-ass for HS. shes 14 afetr all, a freshman yes?
And how old are you? You mentioned a makeoutspot in your rambling. Thats abd if shes 13 and drunk. bad idea man lol.
Evil-Rom
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Believe me, you're not.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BrokenTrustDrummer
Don Juan
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Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
*Gets hit by tumble weed*
Yoou goot seeerved!!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.