"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
does this hoe deserve my apologee?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
b) well, i dont think you should have let her drink or given her a drink (specially if you know her older sister), but i dont think that you should apologise unless shes really pissed off about it.
c)apologise if you think u made a mistake
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
If you have a gut feeling saying you did something wrong, then apologize for it. Your gut is usually correct, even if you don't think it is.
The things that I will apologize for is if I did something wrong, if I hurt someone else without knowing it (i.e. hurting someones feelings), or doing something really mean.
Preferably i don't drink and don't want anyone getting mixed up in it.
Lets look at this through objective eyes.
A.) You said "drink if you want to" (just taking wild guess on this. I figure that you are smart enough not to force her to do anything)
B.) She drank on her own free will. No one forced the drink down her throat
C.) Now you are asking for us to tell you if it is alright to apologize. If the sister you just want to bone and you make an apology than it is not alright. If you feel genuinely sorry for it than yes apologize.
Centy
Don Juan
and yes, you should apologize to her sister and to her. You should have known better than to let a 13year old drink. It's called common sense.
You didn't do anything wrong, screw her sister. Its not like you stuck a beer bong in her mouth and forced her to drink.
Appologize if you want, but IMHO you didn't do anything wrong. I know i wouldn't apologize, then again i never do.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i dont know........ my WM said "do you realize that shes only 14 and you let her drink? you should be more responsible?"
im thinking it bubbles down to weather its a LTR or just for fun.
EDIT: i meant hoe because i refer to all girls by something that sets me higher than them. actually shes kind of like a LJBF friend.
Centy
Don Juan
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
Don't apologize, especially if the older sister is pissed. Tell ehr to take that **** out on her younger sis, all you did was show her how to have a good time and prepare her young-ass for HS. shes 14 afetr all, a freshman yes?
And how old are you? You mentioned a makeoutspot in your rambling. Thats abd if shes 13 and drunk. bad idea man lol.
Evil-Rom
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Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
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