"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ScrewIt

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I know this sounds strange.

but has there ever been a time where you thought of girls in general or of their names. This one name and one person always comes to mind?? Yet you're sure you're not attracted to this person.

This has happened to me recently. whenever i think of something relating to a girl, my friend/acquantance comes to mind. I used to hang out with her about a year ago, but now the only time i talk to her is if i bump into her, we both go to the same college. Im pretty certain im not attracted to her, yet i dont know why this happens.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJBen

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Yep. It's why I dont like girls that always wear the same perfume/always go to the same place.

I always think of my ex when theres that cold-musty car smell in the winter. Damn good memories... *slips into a state of sadness*. Well, shame she had to change and then cheat on me. NEXT! ;)
 

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Originally posted by DJBen
Yep. It's why I dont like girls that always wear the same perfume/always go to the same place.

thats why i change perfume and buy all new underwear after a break up... dont want to be associated with anything with the last ex,,,,
 
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