"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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does this ever happen to you? memories of a girl resurface...

ScrewIt

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I know this sounds strange.

but has there ever been a time where you thought of girls in general or of their names. This one name and one person always comes to mind?? Yet you're sure you're not attracted to this person.

This has happened to me recently. whenever i think of something relating to a girl, my friend/acquantance comes to mind. I used to hang out with her about a year ago, but now the only time i talk to her is if i bump into her, we both go to the same college. Im pretty certain im not attracted to her, yet i dont know why this happens.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJBen

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Yep. It's why I dont like girls that always wear the same perfume/always go to the same place.

I always think of my ex when theres that cold-musty car smell in the winter. Damn good memories... *slips into a state of sadness*. Well, shame she had to change and then cheat on me. NEXT! ;)
 

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Originally posted by DJBen
Yep. It's why I dont like girls that always wear the same perfume/always go to the same place.

thats why i change perfume and buy all new underwear after a break up... dont want to be associated with anything with the last ex,,,,
 
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