"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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does the sun give you birthmarks?

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Well lately I have been outside alot. tons of yard work and stuff. I have noticed that I have been getting birthmarks more on my face than ever.

so what I was wondering, is this from the sun or what? I remember hearing awhile back that to much sun will do this to you. so could someone please clear this up for me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ummm, they're called birthmarks for a reason.
 
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avrilishot said:
Well lately I have been outside alot. tons of yard work and stuff. I have noticed that I have been getting birthmarks more on my face than ever.

so what I was wondering, is this from the sun or what? I remember hearing awhile back that to much sun will do this to you. so could someone please clear this up for me?
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Could be sun spots, freckles, or moles. It could be a combination of too much sun and genetics (if your parents have sensetive skin, you will too). I would recommand to use sunscreen if you spend alot of time outdoors and to go see a dermatologist just to be sure.
 
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While your post made me laugh at first (birthmarks are only from BIRTH), it made me concerned quickly. I really think you should go see a doctor or dermatologist ASAP. Not trying to scare you or anything, but it could be skin cancer. Just be really careful, wear sun screen, and don't stay out too long. Getting a tan is overrated.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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