"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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does the sun give you birthmarks?

avrilishot

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Well lately I have been outside alot. tons of yard work and stuff. I have noticed that I have been getting birthmarks more on my face than ever.

so what I was wondering, is this from the sun or what? I remember hearing awhile back that to much sun will do this to you. so could someone please clear this up for me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Ummm, they're called birthmarks for a reason.
 

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avrilishot said:
Well lately I have been outside alot. tons of yard work and stuff. I have noticed that I have been getting birthmarks more on my face than ever.

so what I was wondering, is this from the sun or what? I remember hearing awhile back that to much sun will do this to you. so could someone please clear this up for me?
Could be sun spots, freckles, or moles. It could be a combination of too much sun and genetics (if your parents have sensetive skin, you will too). I would recommand to use sunscreen if you spend alot of time outdoors and to go see a dermatologist just to be sure.
 

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While your post made me laugh at first (birthmarks are only from BIRTH), it made me concerned quickly. I really think you should go see a doctor or dermatologist ASAP. Not trying to scare you or anything, but it could be skin cancer. Just be really careful, wear sun screen, and don't stay out too long. Getting a tan is overrated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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