"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does the good physique help us to attract women?

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Do women really attract the men who are having good physique.??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I see it this way, if you dont have the abs and the pecs you wont get marked down. But if you do have them you can get marked up, it helps but its not the be all and end all. Even though I have nagged free stuff by showing my stomach ;)
 
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Since I've become muscular, attraction from girls has increased SIGNIFICANTLY.
 
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thnx :) I will go to gym then :)
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Get in shape for yourself, not for women. Do it because it's the healthy thing to do. If you simply do it for aesthetics, you probably won't get proper workouts, or be as consistent (meaning, stopping just because you start getting some girls).

Let women be a side effect of your improved health/physical well-being.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Feeding the troll
 
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some women could care less if a guy has abs and huge muscles. infact the clubs and stuff I go to the steroids guys do not get too much love. I am in shape but I do not even have a flat stomach or abs. but I am in shape and athletic.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I am in shape but I do not even have a flat stomach or abs.
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That is an anomaly. Abdominal fat is the unhealthiest kind. If you have a gut you are not in shape.
 
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I think if you have a good body, muscles etc, it helps women rationalise why they feel attracted to u. They're prob attracted to you coz of ur game/personality/confidence, but they don't know that, they'll think its coz ur good looking etc
 
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bigneil said:
That is an anomaly. Abdominal fat is the unhealthiest kind. If you have a gut you are not in shape.
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That only counts for women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bigneil said:
That is an anomaly. Abdominal fat is the unhealthiest kind. If you have a gut you are not in shape.
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Depends on your definition of "in shape", but a person can be healthy without having a completely flat stomach.

Also, care to elabaroate on why abdominal fat is apparently the worst kind? I don't see anything special about it
 
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God damn.

Case closed.
 
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I used to be skinny, then I got muscular, now I have a beer gut.

I didn't feel like going back to the gym, so I got GLUTTONY tattooed on my gut.

Don't get as many girls as when I was in shape, but still get way more than when I was skinny.
 
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Almost all of the guys I know that have a ripped physique are terrible with women. I know one bodybuilder who enters in local competitions all the time and usually wins, yet he doesn't pull in hotties. He's one of the most insecure people I know. Another guy I went to high school with. He was real skinny, then starting going to the gym for 3 years straight. He's got a nice 6 pack, decent sized arms, etc. His skills are the same as they were before he started lifting.

The one thing that those two guys have in common, along with pretty much every other guy that lives in the gym, is that they're incredibly insecure and are trying to compensate. They're in the same situation as the guys in this forum that frequent the gym. Either they're extremely skinny, short, or ignored by girls in their life. The first thing they think is "I gotta get ripped." They can't even open their mouths to talk to a girl, yet they think pumping iron is going to solve their problems... and of course it doesn't.

90% of the hot girls I see are with skinny guys that have a good-looking face.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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