"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Does some chick make dates knowing they will break them?

DanishDJ

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I meet this chick at a party and we where all over each other, didnt pull her though, because she had something important to do early the next morning.

When I called her later it seemed like she was screening my calles. That is she never picked up the phone if I called her from a number she knew was mine, but always if I called from sombody elses phone. I know what you are thinking, that ofcause she was screening me, but she always seemed very posetive towards me when I finally got to talk with her.

Three times we made plans to meet, always with far ahead, so we had to talk more about it and everytime she blew me of, "sorry I forgot and made other plans" and bull.... like that.

Is it possibil that this chick always planed to blew me of, just for the fun of it or what can have been going on?
 

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I don't think she planned to blow you off, she just did. Women are f***ed up in the head like that.

It's just typical female flaky behaviour. I'd move on if I were you. Her loss anyway, right??
 

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Originally posted by Triple X
I don't think she planned to blow you off, she just did. Women are f***ed up in the head like that.

It's just typical female flaky behaviour. I'd move on if I were you. Her loss anyway, right??
Her loss for sure, I am happy I found out about her flacky behaviour before it got serious. I am just surpriced, because I never tried a girl behaving anything like that before.

She actually got mad when I told her, I had better thing to do then make plans with sombody who would flake out on me like that, because I her mind none of the three times we had made plans was real plans.
 
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