"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Does some chick make dates knowing they will break them?

DanishDJ

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I meet this chick at a party and we where all over each other, didnt pull her though, because she had something important to do early the next morning.

When I called her later it seemed like she was screening my calles. That is she never picked up the phone if I called her from a number she knew was mine, but always if I called from sombody elses phone. I know what you are thinking, that ofcause she was screening me, but she always seemed very posetive towards me when I finally got to talk with her.

Three times we made plans to meet, always with far ahead, so we had to talk more about it and everytime she blew me of, "sorry I forgot and made other plans" and bull.... like that.

Is it possibil that this chick always planed to blew me of, just for the fun of it or what can have been going on?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't think she planned to blow you off, she just did. Women are f***ed up in the head like that.

It's just typical female flaky behaviour. I'd move on if I were you. Her loss anyway, right??
 

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Originally posted by Triple X
I don't think she planned to blow you off, she just did. Women are f***ed up in the head like that.

It's just typical female flaky behaviour. I'd move on if I were you. Her loss anyway, right??
Her loss for sure, I am happy I found out about her flacky behaviour before it got serious. I am just surpriced, because I never tried a girl behaving anything like that before.

She actually got mad when I told her, I had better thing to do then make plans with sombody who would flake out on me like that, because I her mind none of the three times we had made plans was real plans.
 
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