"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Does some chick make dates knowing they will break them?

DanishDJ

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I meet this chick at a party and we where all over each other, didnt pull her though, because she had something important to do early the next morning.

When I called her later it seemed like she was screening my calles. That is she never picked up the phone if I called her from a number she knew was mine, but always if I called from sombody elses phone. I know what you are thinking, that ofcause she was screening me, but she always seemed very posetive towards me when I finally got to talk with her.

Three times we made plans to meet, always with far ahead, so we had to talk more about it and everytime she blew me of, "sorry I forgot and made other plans" and bull.... like that.

Is it possibil that this chick always planed to blew me of, just for the fun of it or what can have been going on?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't think she planned to blow you off, she just did. Women are f***ed up in the head like that.

It's just typical female flaky behaviour. I'd move on if I were you. Her loss anyway, right??
 

DanishDJ

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Originally posted by Triple X
I don't think she planned to blow you off, she just did. Women are f***ed up in the head like that.

It's just typical female flaky behaviour. I'd move on if I were you. Her loss anyway, right??
Her loss for sure, I am happy I found out about her flacky behaviour before it got serious. I am just surpriced, because I never tried a girl behaving anything like that before.

She actually got mad when I told her, I had better thing to do then make plans with sombody who would flake out on me like that, because I her mind none of the three times we had made plans was real plans.
 
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