"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Does Size Matter?

Hamurabimbi

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I've always found it curious that there seems to be a very large number of men who are "slightly longer than average" and virtually no one who is slightly shorter than average :lol: But I digress...

Size matters to an extent but it's not nearly as big of a deal (no pun intended) as some people think. As long as you fall within the standard deviation (i.e. you are not significantly smaller or larger than average), you should be fine. Of course, it also depends on the internal dimension of you paramour (the expression "throwing a hot dog down the hallway" comes to mind).
Remember. We are all 7/10s too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl don't worry, you'll be fine. Men with age and due to reduction in testosterone, blood flows goes less to the d!ck, and since is big now, eventually it will be smaller and softer, less pain for you.

Here is the article for it:

When you stop having regular erections or have fewer erections, the elastic tissue that stretches the penis from the flaccid state into the erect state can cause the penis to lose its elasticity. If the penis is not elastic, it won’t stretch when you get an erection, and you will notice you lost length.
It's OVER for FlacidStateCels. :(
 

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Ted Danson once described his sex life with Whoopi Goldberg as "like throwing a hot dog down a hallway."
I've noticed that the best position with such cavernous chicks is spooning.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Does penis girth/length matter to women?

Ever had a woman tell you that your penis wasnt big enough? Too big?

I'm slightly longer than average and there have been a few that commented positively.

My general sense is it really isn't a big deal.

If you look at the typical vibrator/dildo at a sex toy shop it's not something giant. However, as @DJ Novice pointed out, some females are about it.

All of my exes had sex toys that were pretty comparable to the average male penis. Maybe they kept the big monsters hidden and never showed me?
According to chat GPT, girth matters more

with that said, I am longer than average and again, according to the AI, 4 standard deviations wider than typical girth

I have had most women say it was the perfect fit. Even my angry ex wife commented.

I think it’s more **** though.
 

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Of course size matters

1" is too small and 16" is too big

Generally speaking though I don't think women care as much as men do (in the same way women don't care about cars or bodybuilders, only men do). I think anything around 5" and 8" is probably good for the vast majority of women, although some women with big gaping vaginas might prefer larger ones, or women with tiny/tight vaginas who might prefer smaller ones.

I think erectile strength and shape, and whether you're circumsized or not actually matters a lot more. All women prefer circumsized ****s and in fact if you travel to other countries you'll find that out that women overseas appreciate American men specifically for that reason.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It matters but how much differs based on each women and potentially her experiences prior to you.
 

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Any woman who tells you size doesn’t matter is a liar.

Size can be shaft length, shaft girth, head girth or any combination of the above.

I’ve been told by quite a few women that my head girth is larger than average which stimulates them in a way they haven’t experienced before. I think I’m just average in the other factors.

Women who are younger, haven’t had children, naturally small (like from Asian countries) and those who have done a lot of yoga, Pilates and other abdominal or pelvic floor exercises are often tighter so you don’t need to be as large yourself to get a reaction.
 

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I think if you don’t care how big you are. Women don’t really care. Thats unless it’s micro-size then that would be rough. There are loads of women who don’t like big at all. Sometimes I think that’s why they aren’t looking to get it on a lot or make excuses like maybe this weekend or even not at all. Being passionate and somewhat rough is more of a turn on for women than anything else. If you’re big and hitting her cervix. She ain’t gonna want to put out all the time because it’ll be more pain than pleasure. If a woman is crazy about you and your average. She’ll be more than happy anytime any way. My wife is Eastern European so when I went to their beaches. Let’s just say when a lot of guys got out of the water. They were packing. I got out of the water. It was just wet shorts and a dot. Hahaha. Well not that bad but I did I care. Absolutely not. Don’t think about it cause it’ll come off as insecure and weak. You can’t change what you got so roll with it.
 

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Does penis girth/length matter to women?

Ever had a woman tell you that your penis wasnt big enough? Too big?

I'm slightly longer than average and there have been a few that commented positively.

My general sense is it really isn't a big deal.

If you look at the typical vibrator/dildo at a sex toy shop it's not something giant. However, as @DJ Novice pointed out, some females are about it.

All of my exes had sex toys that were pretty comparable to the average male penis. Maybe they kept the big monsters hidden and never showed me?
I think it's one of those feature that grants you a boost or a malus if its away from the average size, I think just like height it's an asset if its above average but within the normal side.

Probably has a psychological effect more than physical on both men and women, a hung guy is more confident while a woman dealing with an hung guy is probably more tolerant toward minor skill issues plus she can brag about it with her friends.

I had girls complimenting on mine and also girls insulting me on that but didnt make much of a difference in the long term and there was no correlation with banging them again or not.

A girl told me I had an amazing d1ck then disappeared few months later, an other one told me it was small but we kept having sex till I dropped her.

My size is within average in most european countries while it's above in certain ones btw.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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