"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Does she want me?

donjuan87

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First, a little backstory. I am in a study hall with one of my friends (we're both seniors) and two girls (both sophmores). We flirt a little back and forth, him doing it more than I do. Both of the girls are cute.

Okay, so recently one of the girls made out with my friend that's in the study hall with me, and the other girl, Julie, is kind of disgusted in her. (my friend was gone that day). So Julie says to me "lets go to the library and look at magazines." So we head down there and grab some teen magazines and sit on the couch. She is pointing at girls in the mag and asking if I think they are hot. She also points at a picture of a girl in the magazine and asks "do you think my hair would look good like that?" She also invited me to a party she's having in about a week and a half. So should I go for here? She's 16, and I'm 18.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oakraiderz2

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Uhh.....yes.
 

redbyte

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She could be a playa.
Just wants another man to hang off her. I've been there. Not fun.
Ask her out. That will determine if shes interested.

You can't really type 1 paragraph explaining how she acted. We don't know anymore than you do.

So like I said, find out.

Best of luck. :cool:
 

DJ4Real

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Don't "go" for her. The word "go" implies "chase". Therefore, don't "go" for her; rather, reel her in and attract her.

Good Luck:cool:
 

wavejams007

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as has been stated so many time before, read the bible, and the numerous other articles on this site.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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