"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donjuan87

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First, a little backstory. I am in a study hall with one of my friends (we're both seniors) and two girls (both sophmores). We flirt a little back and forth, him doing it more than I do. Both of the girls are cute.

Okay, so recently one of the girls made out with my friend that's in the study hall with me, and the other girl, Julie, is kind of disgusted in her. (my friend was gone that day). So Julie says to me "lets go to the library and look at magazines." So we head down there and grab some teen magazines and sit on the couch. She is pointing at girls in the mag and asking if I think they are hot. She also points at a picture of a girl in the magazine and asks "do you think my hair would look good like that?" She also invited me to a party she's having in about a week and a half. So should I go for here? She's 16, and I'm 18.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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oakraiderz2

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Uhh.....yes.
 

redbyte

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She could be a playa.
Just wants another man to hang off her. I've been there. Not fun.
Ask her out. That will determine if shes interested.

You can't really type 1 paragraph explaining how she acted. We don't know anymore than you do.

So like I said, find out.

Best of luck. :cool:
 

DJ4Real

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Don't "go" for her. The word "go" implies "chase". Therefore, don't "go" for her; rather, reel her in and attract her.

Good Luck:cool:
 

wavejams007

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as has been stated so many time before, read the bible, and the numerous other articles on this site.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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