"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Does she want me?

donjuan87

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First, a little backstory. I am in a study hall with one of my friends (we're both seniors) and two girls (both sophmores). We flirt a little back and forth, him doing it more than I do. Both of the girls are cute.

Okay, so recently one of the girls made out with my friend that's in the study hall with me, and the other girl, Julie, is kind of disgusted in her. (my friend was gone that day). So Julie says to me "lets go to the library and look at magazines." So we head down there and grab some teen magazines and sit on the couch. She is pointing at girls in the mag and asking if I think they are hot. She also points at a picture of a girl in the magazine and asks "do you think my hair would look good like that?" She also invited me to a party she's having in about a week and a half. So should I go for here? She's 16, and I'm 18.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2

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Uhh.....yes.
 

redbyte

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She could be a playa.
Just wants another man to hang off her. I've been there. Not fun.
Ask her out. That will determine if shes interested.

You can't really type 1 paragraph explaining how she acted. We don't know anymore than you do.

So like I said, find out.

Best of luck. :cool:
 

DJ4Real

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Don't "go" for her. The word "go" implies "chase". Therefore, don't "go" for her; rather, reel her in and attract her.

Good Luck:cool:
 

wavejams007

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as has been stated so many time before, read the bible, and the numerous other articles on this site.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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