Does she like me, or not?

[smoofle]

So there's this girl I know that I've had a crush on for quite some time. And, a month ago I could have sworn she liked me, but now I'm not too sure. She's hot, pretty much every guy who's seen her has hit on her and thought she was a babe. But, she's never had a bf before.

Here's why I think she likes me:
- We talk for hours at a time...no awkward pauses or anything...i make her laugh a hella lot
- She always laughs and says, "you're so mean!" and smacks me (she does that to some other people too though)
- she always comes up and starts talking to me, not vice versa
- last party i went to with her, i found her looking at me quite often...it could have just been her seeing if i was checking her out again, who knows?

Why she might not:
- Her school doesn't have school dances, and the first one she went to i was there. I asked her for a slow dance, and she declined...saying she didn't know how to dance. On the last song, a friend...i dunno hooked her up or something and got her to to dance with a friend of mine (right in front of me) she logs on aim that night and sends me an offline message apologizing that she didn't dance with me because she didn't know how to dance.
- whenever we hang out, i drive her home and she kinda opens her door, walks in and waves me good night.

I'm thinking right now that I might just be a good friend to her...in which case, what should i do? Ganji? I don't have much time...maybe 3 months before I leave for college (she's a junior next year)

 

[Upthere]

Why she might not:
- Her school doesn't have school dances, and the first one she went to i was there. I asked her for a slow dance, and she declined...saying she didn't know how to dance. On the last song, a friend...i dunno hooked her up or something and got her to to dance with a friend of mine (right in front of me) she logs on aim that night and sends me an offline message apologizing that she didn't dance with me because she didn't know how to dance.

I think you should have called her out on this. Anyone agree?
I can't tell if she likes you. I am in no place to tell as I am very new to this

 

[smooth guy]

There are a few signs there that could mean there is some sort of interest. Way to find out...make a move, ask her out.

 

[SenorSuave]

When she gets out of the car, use a c and f line like "Oh I see how it is, don't want to get too attached huh? That's cool."

 

[Infraction]

Try to kiss her. There is no other way.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Well her dancing with another guy instead of you seems a little off. Maybe she's trying to make you jealous and see how u react. There does seem to be some signs of interest. But, you could be in the friend zone. You could ask her on a date and see how it goes or make a move on her. Then, you will know for sure.

If you can post more signs of intrests and non intrest we might be able to get a better understanding.