My ex and I had dated for over 2 years and she broke up with me about 2 months ago but were still sleeping together. She has been playing games with me during this time and playing with my heart. Well I ended up taking a girl home from the bar last weekend and we had sex. Well my ex found about out it and now she never wants to talk to me again. She says I betrayed her trust and she is really disappointed with me. Huh, she broke up with me. I'm really taking this hard because I love her I don't undertstand why she hates me she dumped me.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Does she deserve to hate me??
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Because you are whining like a pvssy right now, that's why she hates you. Oh wait, that's why I hate you. Who cares what she thinks, she's your ex. Move forward. She's just playing with your head man. She wants to dump you twice. Once the first time, the second to destroy the image of you as a man once and for all in her mind. Don't let her diminish you with shaming tactics and bull****.
Sounds familiar. Your ex dosent want you to want to be with her but still wants you to be with her. Its a catch 22 but its the way women think. Check out Rollo's thread on the Desire Dynamic.bud_2005 said:My ex and I had dated for over 2 years and she broke up with me about 2 months ago but were still sleeping together. She has been playing games with me during this time and playing with my heart. Well I ended up taking a girl home from the bar last weekend and we had sex. Well my ex found about out it and now she never wants to talk to me again. She says I betrayed her trust and she is really disappointed with me. Huh, she broke up with me. I'm really taking this hard because I love her I don't undertstand why she hates me she dumped me.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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At the end of the day Bud 2005, You're an AFC. Everyone who has posted to this have all said very intelligent and helpful responses. Get over it. You are you, you are not your ex's property. She is playing with your head and it has happened to me in the past. Get away from her especially if you two are living in the same place. Stop loving her, she doesn't deserve your love if she can't accept that you're going to be making your own choices. **** that ****en ***** slut hoebag peice of **** **** *****!