My ex and I had dated for over 2 years and she broke up with me about 2 months ago but were still sleeping together. She has been playing games with me during this time and playing with my heart. Well I ended up taking a girl home from the bar last weekend and we had sex. Well my ex found about out it and now she never wants to talk to me again. She says I betrayed her trust and she is really disappointed with me. Huh, she broke up with me. I'm really taking this hard because I love her I don't undertstand why she hates me she dumped me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Does she deserve to hate me??
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Because you are whining like a pvssy right now, that's why she hates you. Oh wait, that's why I hate you. Who cares what she thinks, she's your ex. Move forward. She's just playing with your head man. She wants to dump you twice. Once the first time, the second to destroy the image of you as a man once and for all in her mind. Don't let her diminish you with shaming tactics and bull****.
Sounds familiar. Your ex dosent want you to want to be with her but still wants you to be with her. Its a catch 22 but its the way women think. Check out Rollo's thread on the Desire Dynamic.bud_2005 said:My ex and I had dated for over 2 years and she broke up with me about 2 months ago but were still sleeping together. She has been playing games with me during this time and playing with my heart. Well I ended up taking a girl home from the bar last weekend and we had sex. Well my ex found about out it and now she never wants to talk to me again. She says I betrayed her trust and she is really disappointed with me. Huh, she broke up with me. I'm really taking this hard because I love her I don't undertstand why she hates me she dumped me.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=84124
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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At the end of the day Bud 2005, You're an AFC. Everyone who has posted to this have all said very intelligent and helpful responses. Get over it. You are you, you are not your ex's property. She is playing with your head and it has happened to me in the past. Get away from her especially if you two are living in the same place. Stop loving her, she doesn't deserve your love if she can't accept that you're going to be making your own choices. **** that ****en ***** slut hoebag peice of **** **** *****!