My ex and I had dated for over 2 years and she broke up with me about 2 months ago but were still sleeping together. She has been playing games with me during this time and playing with my heart. Well I ended up taking a girl home from the bar last weekend and we had sex. Well my ex found about out it and now she never wants to talk to me again. She says I betrayed her trust and she is really disappointed with me. Huh, she broke up with me. I'm really taking this hard because I love her I don't undertstand why she hates me she dumped me.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Does she deserve to hate me??
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Because you are whining like a pvssy right now, that's why she hates you. Oh wait, that's why I hate you. Who cares what she thinks, she's your ex. Move forward. She's just playing with your head man. She wants to dump you twice. Once the first time, the second to destroy the image of you as a man once and for all in her mind. Don't let her diminish you with shaming tactics and bull****.
Sounds familiar. Your ex dosent want you to want to be with her but still wants you to be with her. Its a catch 22 but its the way women think. Check out Rollo's thread on the Desire Dynamic.bud_2005 said:My ex and I had dated for over 2 years and she broke up with me about 2 months ago but were still sleeping together. She has been playing games with me during this time and playing with my heart. Well I ended up taking a girl home from the bar last weekend and we had sex. Well my ex found about out it and now she never wants to talk to me again. She says I betrayed her trust and she is really disappointed with me. Huh, she broke up with me. I'm really taking this hard because I love her I don't undertstand why she hates me she dumped me.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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At the end of the day Bud 2005, You're an AFC. Everyone who has posted to this have all said very intelligent and helpful responses. Get over it. You are you, you are not your ex's property. She is playing with your head and it has happened to me in the past. Get away from her especially if you two are living in the same place. Stop loving her, she doesn't deserve your love if she can't accept that you're going to be making your own choices. **** that ****en ***** slut hoebag peice of **** **** *****!