I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yes. And women equally learn to respond to them by watching the show.Francisco d'Anconia said:How would it effect your game? Are you asking whether or not guys are implementing the skills that they learn from the show?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hey, here's a little insight. Women who are interested typically are receptive to your advances. Women don't necessarily have the predisposition to rebuff every guy, just the ones they aren't interested in.amoka said:Yes. And women equally learn to respond to them by watching the show.
if the girl likes you and the attraction is there none of it matters..the problem was the that the AFC geeks were just being dorks to begin with,once they stepped up their game and learned to just be cool and confident with girls responding favorably I'd say it would work in their favor and much more successfull then their usual duh duh huh huh gameamoka said:Do you all feel we will end up in square one after all the chumps out there got enlightened by the show and all the bitches out there watch the show and realize its game? Assuming majority of the men out there learn to play the game PUA style and majority of the girls out there learn to respond to the PUA way of talking and ralized it is rather an act and not genuine. Would they get got with AFCs instead of the PUAs, with the notion that PUA are mere act?