You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yes. And women equally learn to respond to them by watching the show.Francisco d'Anconia said:How would it effect your game? Are you asking whether or not guys are implementing the skills that they learn from the show?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hey, here's a little insight. Women who are interested typically are receptive to your advances. Women don't necessarily have the predisposition to rebuff every guy, just the ones they aren't interested in.amoka said:Yes. And women equally learn to respond to them by watching the show.
if the girl likes you and the attraction is there none of it matters..the problem was the that the AFC geeks were just being dorks to begin with,once they stepped up their game and learned to just be cool and confident with girls responding favorably I'd say it would work in their favor and much more successfull then their usual duh duh huh huh gameamoka said:Do you all feel we will end up in square one after all the chumps out there got enlightened by the show and all the bitches out there watch the show and realize its game? Assuming majority of the men out there learn to play the game PUA style and majority of the girls out there learn to respond to the PUA way of talking and ralized it is rather an act and not genuine. Would they get got with AFCs instead of the PUAs, with the notion that PUA are mere act?