"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Does Mystery's VH1 show affect your game?

amoka

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Just want to know how the new Mystery show 'Pick-Up-Artist' on VH1 affect your game, (positively and negatively).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How would it effect your game? Are you asking whether or not guys are implementing the skills that they learn from the show?
 

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back to square 1? AFCs Rule?

Do you all feel we will end up in square one after all the chumps out there got enlightened by the show and all the bitches out there watch the show and realize its game? Assuming majority of the men out there learn to play the game PUA style and majority of the girls out there learn to respond to the PUA way of talking and ralized it is rather an act and not genuine. Would they get got with AFCs instead of the PUAs, with the notion that PUA are mere act?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
How would it effect your game? Are you asking whether or not guys are implementing the skills that they learn from the show?
Yes. And women equally learn to respond to them by watching the show.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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But is it really an act?

To me being confident, playful and occasionally busting someones balls is my personality, i'm being true to myself, I don't use canned lines or anything like that so it's not an act.


I understand sociology and I know that there are aspects of human nature that people find attractive no matter what, things such as confidence for instance. I also understand that there are ways to approach a woman without seeming like a creep, especially when girls get approached all the time.

I also understand what women dislike, things such as neediness, and becoming clingy. I know that women love a chase and a "challenge".

It's that mindset and that understanding that attracts women. Not canned lines, or routines.

If we stay true to who we are, and don't make it seem like "an act" then we should have no problem, because well, it shouldn't be an act.

I doubt they are going to give thattt much away on the show, and if they do, I don't think every girl in the world will watch it.

Men will watch this and say, cool. And that's it. Most of them won't learn from it..

In my opinion, we have nothing to worry about.
 

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amoka said:
Yes. And women equally learn to respond to them by watching the show.
Hey, here's a little insight. Women who are interested typically are receptive to your advances. Women don't necessarily have the predisposition to rebuff every guy, just the ones they aren't interested in.
 

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amoka said:
Do you all feel we will end up in square one after all the chumps out there got enlightened by the show and all the bitches out there watch the show and realize its game? Assuming majority of the men out there learn to play the game PUA style and majority of the girls out there learn to respond to the PUA way of talking and ralized it is rather an act and not genuine. Would they get got with AFCs instead of the PUAs, with the notion that PUA are mere act?
if the girl likes you and the attraction is there none of it matters..the problem was the that the AFC geeks were just being dorks to begin with,once they stepped up their game and learned to just be cool and confident with girls responding favorably I'd say it would work in their favor and much more successfull then their usual duh duh huh huh game :D

in the end though if its just an act and not genuine in your approach in the first place,prepare to crash and burn quick..girls see through that shiet.
 
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