"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Does Mystery's VH1 show affect your game?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Do you all feel we will end up in square one after all the chumps out there got enlightened by the show and all the bitches out there watch the show and realize its game? Assuming majority of the men out there learn to play the game PUA style and majority of the girls out there learn to respond to the PUA way of talking and ralized it is rather an act and not genuine. Would they get got with AFCs instead of the PUAs, with the notion that PUA are mere act?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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To me being confident, playful and occasionally busting someones balls is my personality, i'm being true to myself, I don't use canned lines or anything like that so it's not an act.
I understand sociology and I know that there are aspects of human nature that people find attractive no matter what, things such as confidence for instance. I also understand that there are ways to approach a woman without seeming like a creep, especially when girls get approached all the time.
I also understand what women dislike, things such as neediness, and becoming clingy. I know that women love a chase and a "challenge".
It's that mindset and that understanding that attracts women. Not canned lines, or routines.
If we stay true to who we are, and don't make it seem like "an act" then we should have no problem, because well, it shouldn't be an act.
I doubt they are going to give thattt much away on the show, and if they do, I don't think every girl in the world will watch it.
Men will watch this and say, cool. And that's it. Most of them won't learn from it..
In my opinion, we have nothing to worry about.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Hey, here's a little insight. Women who are interested typically are receptive to your advances. Women don't necessarily have the predisposition to rebuff every guy, just the ones they aren't interested in.amoka said:
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if the girl likes you and the attraction is there none of it matters..the problem was the that the AFC geeks were just being dorks to begin with,once they stepped up their game and learned to just be cool and confident with girls responding favorably I'd say it would work in their favor and much more successfull then their usual duh duh huh huh gameamoka said:
in the end though if its just an act and not genuine in your approach in the first place,prepare to crash and burn quick..girls see through that shiet.