"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Does my professor like me or is it all in my head?

lilady806

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Hey guys =)

I'm a 3rd year college student (female) and would like some opinions on a professor (about 40 years old) since many of you may understand his body language/behavior better than me.

Throughout the semester, I noticed that he came near me a lot during lectures and would almost always come to look at my paper (sometimes more than once). I'm not a star student or anything nor am I one of those students who need "special" attention. There was also one point where he stared straight at me for more than three seconds and when he sometimes talked to other students he would look at me. During exams, I think I've felt his stares while concentrating on my test. So I would look up to make sure I'm not being paranoid and notice him quickly look the other way or to the side. All this lead me to believe that he liked me so I developed a crush on him.

But when I visited him during his office hours he seemed uninterested in making conversation with me. For instance, I would ask him questions (not personal or weird questions, but questions about his country and stuff), yet he would rarely ask questions about myself. And sometimes he would hold eye contact and other times not.

Do you guys think he may have a slight interest in me or am I just overanalyzing?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jazzman19

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You need to get a real man in your life, he is showing ZERO interest.

Hahaha on the "stare thing" during tests. I am in Graduate school....I guess ALL my female teachers liked me since they all do the same thing during lectures, etc! *faceplam*
 

lilady806

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I know it's normal for professors to watch students during tests. My point is I would feel him looking in my direction longer than he should.
 

Kevin Feng

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Oh totally, don't deceive yourself, if only you really had a "guy" talk before. I've talked to plenty of 40 year olds and quite honestly, they're just as horny as a 20 year old.

My older uncle of about 60 years old dates a 20 year girl, because his socioeconomic status allows him to. Hugh Hefner dates girls a quarter of his age.

What he's doing is fighting his social conditioning, but I can guarantee you that if he had the chance to do the hanky panky with you no strings, that he totally would.

We're here for two reasons as a species, survival and replication.

Anyway, play your cards right and I'm sure you could score your professor.

-Kevin
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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