"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Does my professor like me or is it all in my head?

lilady806

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Hey guys =)

I'm a 3rd year college student (female) and would like some opinions on a professor (about 40 years old) since many of you may understand his body language/behavior better than me.

Throughout the semester, I noticed that he came near me a lot during lectures and would almost always come to look at my paper (sometimes more than once). I'm not a star student or anything nor am I one of those students who need "special" attention. There was also one point where he stared straight at me for more than three seconds and when he sometimes talked to other students he would look at me. During exams, I think I've felt his stares while concentrating on my test. So I would look up to make sure I'm not being paranoid and notice him quickly look the other way or to the side. All this lead me to believe that he liked me so I developed a crush on him.

But when I visited him during his office hours he seemed uninterested in making conversation with me. For instance, I would ask him questions (not personal or weird questions, but questions about his country and stuff), yet he would rarely ask questions about myself. And sometimes he would hold eye contact and other times not.

Do you guys think he may have a slight interest in me or am I just overanalyzing?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jazzman19

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You need to get a real man in your life, he is showing ZERO interest.

Hahaha on the "stare thing" during tests. I am in Graduate school....I guess ALL my female teachers liked me since they all do the same thing during lectures, etc! *faceplam*
 

lilady806

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I know it's normal for professors to watch students during tests. My point is I would feel him looking in my direction longer than he should.
 

Kevin Feng

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Oh totally, don't deceive yourself, if only you really had a "guy" talk before. I've talked to plenty of 40 year olds and quite honestly, they're just as horny as a 20 year old.

My older uncle of about 60 years old dates a 20 year girl, because his socioeconomic status allows him to. Hugh Hefner dates girls a quarter of his age.

What he's doing is fighting his social conditioning, but I can guarantee you that if he had the chance to do the hanky panky with you no strings, that he totally would.

We're here for two reasons as a species, survival and replication.

Anyway, play your cards right and I'm sure you could score your professor.

-Kevin
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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